🚨 JANUARY 2024 ✨ FRESH UPDATES 🚨 // 📞 THE HOTLINE 📞 // 📝 PERSONAL STORIES 📝 // 🤑 AFFILIATED BUSINESSES 🤑 //
🚨 JANUARY 2024 ✨ FRESH UPDATES 🚨 // 📞 THE HOTLINE 📞 // 📝 PERSONAL STORIES 📝 // 🤑 AFFILIATED BUSINESSES 🤑 //
What defines a
high-control group (CULT)?
[buckle up, this sh*t is scary
…but there is hope]
The short answer.
THIS SIX MINUTE VIDEO IS ESSENTIAL IN UNDERSTANDING THE BASICS OF WHAT DEFINES A CULT. IF YOU WATCH/READ ONLY ONE THING ON THIS PAGE…MAKE IT THIS.
We will dive much deeper below.
“We’re not f***ing, strange monsters that made bad choices our whole life. We didn’t join a cult. Nobody joins a cult! Nobody. They join a good thing — and then they realize they were f***ed.”
— Mark Vicente (ex-member of NXIVM)
Let’s dig into what the experts have to say.
Below are some valuable resources to aid in understanding what defines a cult (also referred to as a “high-control group”). These resources feature professionals in psychology and sociology, as well as ex-cult members themselves.
As you will see, it is almost impossible for folks inside of a cult to realize it’s a cult—the realization typically comes once they have exited (or made the decision to start the exiting process).
By exposing the truth about Gregg Garner and Global Outreach Developments International we hope to end their organization, and in turn, liberate those inside to build a life outside of the cult (and to warn prospective members before joining).
[takeaways from the above video]
Seven Elements Of Indoctrination:
1. A Crossroads: Finding someone who is in a vulnerable or transitional state (at a crossroads in their life).
2. The Soft Sell: The candidate has an initial meeting or talk with the recruiters.
3. A New Reality: The candidate is immersed into a new reality and separated from outside influences.
4. The Dear Leader: The candidate’s #1 relationship is with the cult leader.
5. The Enemy: The cult creates an external enemy.
6. Peer Pressure: The candidate experiences peer pressure (ex. a strong push to become part of the cult/join the “community”).
7. Sociopathic Narcissist: The new member is brainwashed into serving a sociopathic narcissist.
“Mind control is the process by which one’s freedom of choice is compromised by agents that modify or distort perception, motivation, cognition and/or behavior. It is neither magical or mystical, but a process that involves a set of basic social psychological principles. Conformity, compliance, persuasion, guilt and fear are some of these social influence ingredients. Combined with charismatic, authoritarian leaders and/or dominant ideologies that are often deceptively orchestrated, over an extended period of time, they can create a powerful crucible of extreme mental and behavioral manipulation.”
— Steven Hassan, PhD - Author Of Combating Cult Mind Control
More informative videos.
What is a Cult?
—Steven Hassan Ph.D
Steven Hassen developed the BITE Model to describe the specific methods that cults use to recruit and maintain control over people. “BITE” stands for Behavior, Information, Thought, and Emotional control. Many people think of mind control as an ambiguous, mystical process that cannot be defined in concrete terms. In reality, mind control refers to a specific set of methods and techniques, such as hypnosis or thought-stopping, that influences how a person thinks, feels, and acts.
How to get someone out of a cult
—Joe Szimhart
Cults, conspiracy theories and fringe belief systems have always been around, and Joe Szimhart’s job is to help people out of them. Szimhart is a cult interventionist and has been working in the field since the 1980s, when he left a harmful group. “The leaders didn’t seem to be living according to the strict code of ethics,” he said. Ever since, he has been helping others find information, including Rick Larsen, who now also volunteers his time supporting people like him after he saved his wife from an organization’s dangerous influence.
Steve Hassan’s BITE model of Authoritarian Control.
[“BITE” stands for Behavior, Information, Thought, and Emotional control. Content taken from here.]
Destructive mind control can be determined when the overall effect of these four components promotes dependency and obedience to some leader or cause; it is not necessary for every single item on the list to be present.
BEHAVIOR Control
Regulate individual’s physical reality
Dictate where, how, and with whom the member lives and associates or isolates
When, how and with whom the member has sex
Control types of clothing and hairstyles
Regulate diet – food and drink, hunger and/or fasting
Manipulation and deprivation of sleep
Financial exploitation, manipulation or dependence
Restrict leisure, entertainment, vacation time
Major time spent with group indoctrination and rituals and/or self indoctrination including the Internet
Permission required for major decisions
Rewards and punishments used to modify behaviors, both positive and negative
Discourage individualism, encourage group-think
Impose rigid rules and regulations
Punish disobedience by beating, torture, burning, cutting, rape, or tattooing/branding
Threaten harm to family and friends
Force individual to rape or be raped
Encourage and engage in corporal punishment
Instill dependency and obedience
INFORMATION Control
Deception:
a. Deliberately withhold information
b. Distort information to make it more acceptable
c. Systematically lie to the cult memberMinimize or discourage access to non-cult sources of information, including:
a. Internet, TV, radio, books, articles, newspapers, magazines, media
b. Critical information
c. Former members
d. Keep members busy so they don’t have time to think and investigate
e. Control through cell phone with texting, calls, internet trackingCompartmentalize information into Outsider vs. Insider doctrines
a. Ensure that information is not freely accessible
b. Control information at different levels and missions within group
c. Allow only leadership to decide who needs to know what and whenEncourage spying on other members
a. Impose a buddy system to monitor and control member
b. Report deviant thoughts, feelings and actions to leadership
c. Ensure that individual behavior is monitored by groupExtensive use of cult-generated information and propaganda, including:
a. Newsletters, magazines, journals, audiotapes, videotapes, YouTube, movies and other media
b. Misquoting statements or using them out of context from non-cult sourcesUnethical use of confession
a. Information about sins used to disrupt and/or dissolve identity boundaries
b. Withholding forgiveness or absolution
c. Manipulation of memory, possible false memories
THOUGHT Control
Require members to internalize the group’s doctrine as truth
a. Adopting the group’s ‘map of reality’ as reality
b. Instill black and white thinking
c. Decide between good vs. evil
d. Organize people into us vs. them (insiders vs. outsiders)Change person’s name and identity
Use of loaded language and clichés which constrict knowledge, stop critical thoughts and reduce complexities into platitudinous buzz words
Encourage only ‘good and proper’ thoughts
Hypnotic techniques are used to alter mental states, undermine critical thinking and even to age regress the member
Memories are manipulated and false memories are created
Teaching thought-stopping techniques which shut down reality testing by stopping negative thoughts and allowing only positive thoughts, including:
a. Denial, rationalization, justification, wishful thinking
b. Chanting
c. Meditating
d. Praying
e. Speaking in tongues
f. Singing or hummingRejection of rational analysis, critical thinking, constructive criticism
Forbid critical questions about leader, doctrine, or policy allowed
Labeling alternative belief systems as illegitimate, evil, or not useful
Instill new “map of reality”
EMOTIONAL Control
Manipulate and narrow the range of feelings – some emotions and/or needs are deemed as evil, wrong or selfish
Teach emotion-stopping techniques to block feelings of homesickness, anger, doubt
Make the person feel that problems are always their own fault, never the leader’s or the group’s fault
Promote feelings of guilt or unworthiness, such as:
a. Identity guilt
b. You are not living up to your potential
c. Your family is deficient
d. Your past is suspect
e. Your affiliations are unwise
f. Your thoughts, feelings, actions are irrelevant or selfish
g. Social guilt
f. Historical guiltInstill fear, such as fear of:
a. Thinking independently
b. The outside world
c. Enemies
d. Losing one’s salvation
e. Leaving or being shunned by the group
f. Other’s disapproval
f. Historical guiltExtremes of emotional highs and lows – love bombing and praise one moment and then declaring you are horrible sinner
Ritualistic and sometimes public confession of sins
Phobia indoctrination: inculcating irrational fears about leaving the group or questioning the leader’s authority
a. No happiness or fulfillment possible outside of the group
b. Terrible consequences if you leave: hell, demon possession, incurable diseases, accidents, suicide, insanity, 10,000 reincarnations, etc.
c. Shunning of those who leave; fear of being rejected by friends and family
d. Never a legitimate reason to leave; those who leave are weak, undisciplined, unspiritual, worldly, brainwashed by family or counselor, or seduced by money, sex, or rock and roll
e. Threats of harm to ex-member and family
Takeaway quotes from this video.
“When it takes the form of a group with a leader on a mission who may have stated goals that are very grandiose, but whose actual goal is just nothing but self-aggrandizement…that begins to look like a cult.”
— Daniel Shaw, LCSW (Psychotherapist and Former Cult Member)
“When I realized it was really really a cult was when it all broke down. We all started to realize that things were probably at least getting shaken up…that we said ‘holy sh*t, we’re in a cult!’ And we’ve been in a cult this whole time…and it’s not the joke that we used to make like ‘haha yeah we’re in a cult but it’s a good cult’…like this is actually a cult.”
— Sam Rosen (Former Member, EnlightenNext)
“When you leave the group, your dissociation breaks. Other people have called it ‘snapping’. The person that you were is still there and starts to come back. The person that you made yourself into for the leader is also still lingering, but that person starts to feel like a house of cards; you start to realize that that isn’t you.”
— Daniel Shaw, LCSW (Psychotherapist and Former Cult Member)
“It was like popcorn. You could just see it. People would get it and they would just pop, and all of a sudden they were just like ‘Oh my god, I’m out of here’.
It's gotta feel similar to someone coming out of prison. It was like you were kind of entering the world again for the first time…and everything was amazing.”
— Joel Pitney (Former Member, EnlightenNext)